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After some thought and consideration and angst and guilt and worry, I've decided not to visit my family this year for Thanksgiving.  My dad and stepmom are always drunk the whole time anyway (and are generally racist, homophobic Trumpists) and I'm still quite hurt about the whole "hide my nephew's existence from the family, scream at me when I find out and then falsely tell the extended family I screamed at you" bit from my mother.  

And quite frankly, I can't deal with the extra stress right now.